Author: Bianca Sparacino

Happiness Isn’t Something You Find, It’s Something You Become

I wish I could tell you that you have to do it a certain way. That you have to read a certain book or take a certain trip. That you…
Feel What You Feel: The Healing You Don’t Have To Rush

Please, whatever you do—just feel what you are feeling right now. Do not reach into yourself and pull out what life has planted within you. Instead, reach into yourself and…
Read This When You Feel Like You Can’t Move On

If you feel like you cannot move on from whatever you are going through at the moment, remember this: Six months ago, or twelve months ago, or two years ago,…
Love Shouldn’t Be The Hardest Part Of Your Life

But here’s the thing—you can’t keep choosing someone who doesn’t choose you. You can’t. Because your person is going to be your person for the rest of your life. Not…
A Reminder: You Still Have Time To Become Who You Want To Be

You are here to make the best of it. To discover things that move you deeply. To feel things you have never felt before. You are here to meet people…
The Fixer Needs Care Too: A Gentle Wake-Up Call

If you’re the person who is always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel wanted, that…
How To Give Yourself The Closure You Keep Asking Others For

I know that it is hard to forgive when your chest feels like the broken ruins of a city that was once intact. I know that it is hard to…
What You Lost Might Be Exactly What Saved You

Be thankful for all that did not work out in your life. When you felt like you lost a human soul, when you gripped at its being, when you wished…
Keep Taking the Steps You Don’t Feel Ready For Yet

I am proud of you. I am proud of you for trying, even when it hurts. It takes a lot to be the kind of person who challenges themselves to…
The Love That Feels Calm Is Real (And It’s Coming)

You are going to find them—the person who understands just what it means to be in love with the softness you hold between your palms. You are going to find…