We always have our topmost relationship goal: to be with someone for a lifetime. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together for just days or years—sometimes, we just need validation that our loved ones are meant to stay forever. We want assurance that as we take care of them, they’re also making an effort to treasure us. If they’re not doing the following things every day, then it’s time to think twice.
1. They send “Good morning” and “Good night” messages.
This shows consistency in their actions. They make sure we are in their thoughts, even in the smallest ways. It’s their way of saying, “You’re the first and last thought of my day.” These messages will never go out of style and always remain an effective way to strengthen the connection.
2. They find funny ways to cheer us up.
Whether we’ve had a good or bad day, they make sure it ends on a happy note. Our smiles mean the world to them. Their presence in our lives is a blessing. They’ll crack silly jokes, do out-of-sync dance moves, or throw in some random sarcasm—anything to keep us smiling.
3. They update us on their whereabouts.
We know where they are or what they’re up to without having to ask. It feels like we’re always a part of their decisions. Our opinions matter to them. They won’t leave us with doubts or unanswered questions. They provide the assurance we all deserve—simple yet meaningful.
4. They listen to our rants.
These amazing people become our human diaries. They listen, whether we’re venting about someone who annoyed us or sharing how impressed we are with a colleague. They are always ready to hear our random thoughts, sentiments, and stories. They agree or disagree with honesty, offering words of wisdom and helpful advice. They make things better and bring clarity to our minds.
5. They make us feel beautiful.
Their compliments brighten our day. They appreciate the effort we put into our fashion choices, yet they love us just as much when we’re all-natural. They’re honest about how we look—good or bad—but still see us as radiant. This is a gift every relationship should have, at all times. It comes with a spark.
6. They check in on us throughout the day.
No matter how busy they are, a simple “How are you doing, babe?” is always part of their routine. During breakfast, lunch, or dinner, they make sure we’re eating well. If something upsetting happens, they’ll call right away to help us refocus. They always make sure we’re okay. They are our protectors, showing love in their own heroic ways.
7. Their “Hello” and “Goodbye” come with a kiss.
According to a study from the 1980s, men who kiss their wives before leaving for work live longer, get into fewer accidents, and have higher incomes than those who don’t. Even if we haven’t tied the knot, a kiss upon greeting and parting is a meaningful gesture. It’s an affectionate way of reminding us that we’re special, leaving us with a good memory before starting or ending our time together.
8. They say “I love you.”
Even in the most random moments, they say these three words. Sometimes, it comes with a hug from behind or during a cozy movie night on the couch. When we say it first, they immediately respond with, “I love you too.” As romantic as it is, they always find a way to make us feel cherished.
We deserve to be loved every day. We deserve to feel it from the people who hold our hearts. And when we finally find someone who adores us sincerely, wholly, and passionately, we should consider ourselves lucky.