1. They’re not afraid to have difficult conversations, approaching tough topics with tenderness, honesty, and fairness.
2. They never make you guess if something is bothering them because they will simply tell you, understanding that facing conflict directly makes relationships stronger.
3. They’ve thrown away the score card, not tallying up nice things they do or holding mistakes against you.
4. They have a compatible life vision and values that align with yours, understanding that life logistics matter in relationships.
5. They’re dependable, doing what they say and showing up when promised, proving their trustworthiness through actions.
6. They prioritize your relationship, making you feel important rather than an afterthought.
7. They’re respectful and understand the importance of boundaries, both respecting yours and enforcing their own.
8. They make life more fun, even making mundane tasks enjoyable simply by being around.
9. They want to have a relationship with your friends and family, making an active effort to connect with those important to you.
10. They support you as an active listener, helping make your dreams achievable and being there for both hard times and celebrations.
11. They’ve repeatedly proven their commitment to building a life with you, growing together rather than apart through conscious effort.
12. They embody what a true life partner is, making necessary changes and compromises, bridging differences, and making you unable to imagine loving anyone else.
